Online Dating | Caress

Affectionate Touching

2007-10-15T05:47:00.000-07:00

A bride caresses her new husband.

Virtually any kind of physical touch can be seen as affectionate under the right circumstances, but common examples include:

Holding hands
Hugging: gently enclosing the arms around the trunk of each other or holding them against you
Sitting on or lying against another person; resting one's head on the other's shoulder, lap, breast, etc.
Caressing (petting): gently stroking body parts or hair with a hand
Tickling
Massaging someone's back, legs or feet
Kissing
Spooning
Sexual intercourse, within or outside the context of a relationship
Rubbing or patting someone's belly, mostly for babies
Patting the butt
Tapping the legs, pretending to play the drums

A personal relationship that does not involve sexual behavior, e.g. friendship, may involve affectionate touching. Friends may avoid physical intimacy to avoid associations with sexuality or emotional intimacy, in order not to appear to be in a sexual relationship. The definition of "sexual" physical intimacy varies greatly.

The connotations of different kinds of physical intimacy are largely culturally influenced. In western culture hugging is more common among women than men. In other cultures, such as Arab culture, men may hold hands with no implication of sexuality. Many East Asian cultures typically encourage relatively little body contact between friends, acquaintances, and members of the same sex. Even among family members and spouses, traditionally, there are fewer public displays of affection.

Whether a person is wearing clothing or is nude also plays a role. In particular, touching with clothing tends to be more intimate if the layer of clothing at the area of contact is thin and flexible. The layers may be reduced or eliminated even without undressing by touching unde someone's clothes.

A cuddle party is a party where strangers cuddle, touch, caress, and massage, subject to rules such as no nudity, no hands under clothes, no French kisses and no dry humping or other sex.

Also a person, especially a child, may caress and hug a doll or stuffed animal.

In the Roman Catholic rite of the Holy Mass, immediately after the Doxology, the congregation will partake in the Pax or Rite of Peace. In most Western churches, this involves a handshake and the words "Peace be with you." If the other party is someone known to you, a hug may be substituted. Spouses tend to hug and/or kiss each other first before using the traditional handshake and "Peace be with you" for the other surrounding members of the congregation.

How to Succeed in Online Dating!

2007-10-10T23:09:00.000-07:00

Introduction
Are you signed up with every dating network on the Internet? Have you received zero response, or at best someone you wouldn't date? The reason might be your communication skills. Follow these easy steps to increase your results and find your mate!
Instructions
Difficulty: Easy

Step One
To get positive results from an online dating service or myspace.com you need to focus on details, use positive language, know what you want and don't lie!
The first thing that stands out in any reply is spelling. While the Internet has developed a language all it's own for conversing with friends, that language is not appropriate in a response to the person you might spend the rest of your life with. Most websites have built in spell check that is fast and easy to use. If the website you are using does not have this feature, write your reply in a Word or Word Perfect document and then copy your test into your reply. To do this: highlighting the text, pressing Ctrl and the letter C at the same time. Then place your text on the web page by pressing Ctrl V. While typing your response in a word document page errors will automatically be highlighted. After finishing your reply, hit spell check and you will be given the correct spellings and grammar corrections. This step sounds difficult and time consuming; do you want your soul mate, or the person that is willing to take anything that comes along. If you are really serious about a relationship you will consider that the only thing representing you is your words, and a fuzzy picture!

Step Two
Language:
Do not use pet names! Luv, Love, preti ladi, babe, are words used by people that are familiar with you. They are pet names that have developed through intimacy. To use them in an introduction is inappropriate and insincere. Be respectful! Be courteous!

Step Three
Do not focus on your past when replying to an ad! You don't have to spill your guts the first time you respond to someone's ad. We all have pasts that are not perfect, so leave it in the past. You are working on a future!
Make a list of what you want in a woman. List your likes and leave off your dislikes. Make sure you are listing characteristics and not physical features. As you get to know this person the dislikes will come out naturally. If you dislike smoking, that is usually listed on their profile page! Take time to check their profile out carefully.
I must add that you should be truthful. We all like to exaggerate from time to time, but this is not the place to do it. If you are serious, then treat the process with truth. Truth is respected!

Step Four
Do NOT make negative comments about your ex, whether they are ex-husband/wife or ex girlfriend/boyfriend. Making negative comments about an ex reveals your lack of skill in effectively ending a relationship. Focus on the future and what you want in a relationship NOW! Revealing that your ex-wife cheated on you gives the impression that YOU were lacking, not that she was a poor wife. The focus is your good qualities. Do you really want someone to date you because they feel sorry for you?

Step Five
Do not appear to be needy! Instead of focusing on what you don't have in your life, tell them what you do have. Tell them the positive qualities of your life. Many people respond with "I don't want to be hurt"! Good for you, no one does! Writing that you don't want to be hurt reveals your fear and makes you vulnerable. A good response would be to write you want a positive mature relationship!

Step Six
This is a BIG one!
Do not focus on looks! First of all most of the pictures on a website are flattering, or taken years before. We are not all blessed with model features and photo charisma. Be truthful! If you spend just one day observing the human race you will discover we come in all different shapes and sizes, and not one of those sizes reflects the person inside.
It is all right to want to date a pretty/handsome person, but be realistic about your choices. Read what the person is advertising for. A person that loves the beach, sand and boating, isn't likely to want to be with a person that loves to hike in the desert! Just because they have a nice smile isn't a reason to respond to their ad.
Please use a current photo. Why set yourself up for disappointment? Use several different photos so that you can give a more dimensional look to yourself. Looks are not the most important aspect in picking a date and they can be very deceiving!

How to Climax During Masturbation

2007-10-10T21:09:00.000-07:00

Introduction
Learning to climax during masturbation may take time and practice, especially for women. Some people may feel that what they're doing is wrong. For others it's just lack of knowledge about their body. Learning to have an orgasm during masturbation is a breakthrough to enjoying sex. If you know how to please your own body then sex will become more enjoyable. Follow these steps to climax during masturbation.
Instructions
Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Have an Orgasm During Masturbation for Men

Step One
Find a place to masturbate that is quiet and where you will not be interrupted for a couple of hours. If you don't live alone this may be somewhat difficult to do.

Step Two
Turn on a sexy video. If you don't have any available try looking at a porn magazine or pictures that you find erotic.

Step Three
Lubricate your penis and your hand. Try a water soluble lubricant or lotion.

Step Four
Wrap your dominant hand around your penis or your thumb and index or middle finger. Pump your hand up and down in a rhythmic motion.

Step Five
Pump your hand up and down faster while keeping your rhythm. Focus on your breathing. Allow yourself to relax and climax.

Have an Orgasm During Masturbation for Women

Step One
Allocate some time alone when you won't be interrupted. It is hard for a woman to climax when pressed for time.

Step Two
Take a relaxing bath and soap up your breasts and genitals. Dry them off gently making sure to pay attention to your sensitive spots.

Step Three
Insert your fingers into your vagina. Use your PC muscles to grip your fingers.

Step Four
Rub your ****oris in a circular motion. Slowly apply a small amount of pressure. You should find that your breathing is becoming quicker and more shallow.

Step Five
Relax and go with it. As your breathing becomes shallower you will feel a sense of urgency to finish what you started. You will climax soon after.

How to Use Caressing in Foreplay

2007-10-10T01:06:00.000-07:00

Introduction
There are lots of ways you can spice up foreplay and heighten the sexual tension between you and your partner. One of them is for you and your partner to learn to caress each other in just the right way, and in just the right places, to maximize each other's pleasure.
Instructions
Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Steps

Step One
Spend some time getting to know each other’s bodies simply with looking and light touching.

Step Two
Touch each other using as many different body parts as you can—fingers, toes, hands, feet and even hair, breasts and genitals.

Step Three
Use different techniques on different parts of the body—stroke the legs and arms, rub the stomach and chest, pinch the nipples lightly, stroke the inner thighs.

Step Four
Hold off on touching the genital region for as long as possible, to heighten the sexual tension.

Step Five
When you and your partner can’t wait any more, begin caressing each other’s genitals.

Step Six
Men can stroke the labia, vagina and clitoris with the fingers and hands—try lots of different techniques and remember to be gentle at first. For example, tease the labia between thumb and forefinger, or run your fingers around the entrance to her vagina.

Step Seven
Women can stroke the penis and scrotum with fingers and hands—for example, start by wrapping the hand around the base of the penis and gripping firmly, then slide the hand up to the head of the penis and rub the palm of your hand lightly over it. Gently rub or squeeze the scrotum in your other hand.

Step Eight
Remember to listen to your partner—when you discover a technique they like, you’ll be able to hear it in their voice and breathing, so take note for future occasions.